According to a few researches, lesbian porn is one of the highest browsing tags on most websites. Have you ever wondered, what is so attractive in the sexual activities between two women that in friends, Joey and Chandler agreed to give up their bet reward- an apartment in Manhattan- to watch two of their female straight friends make-out for one whole minute? What is the reason that even straight men enjoy watching lesbian porn?
One of the very simple and straight forward theory is that there is not any male involvement. Men get to watch naked girls without having to look at other guys’ penises or butts, the whole “putting yourself in their shoes” groove does not work out for them. Watching heterosexual porn also makes them compare their parts and ability with the male porn star’s ability, this might make some men insecure and might affect their self-confidence.
Another very simple and obvious reason is involvement of two women instead of just one. Quoting Joey from friends, as in the custard meat trifle, “one pair of boobs- good, two pair of boobs- goooood”. The number of women and the pleasure increases exponentially.
Most of the hetero sexual porn is made for the pleasure of the man, it makes the porn too centered on what the guy wants, the woman is trying to please the guy and it is possible that she isn’t enjoying herself while doing it. In lesbian porn, its just two women enjoying each other’s company and bodies while also enjoying their own body and feeling different sensations with someone who knows their body almost as much as they know it as they have almost the same body.
Men are designed to be aroused by visual indications that emphasis on emotional complexity and drama. Porn has both and with two women, the visual stimuli seems to double up. Women are able to award each other with multiple orgasms, although giving a woman multiple orgasms sounds very good but its hard work and effort, something that only a few men can achieve. So watching a woman give another woman multiple orgasms creates a sense of envy and want in their hearts.
The question then arises, why watch two women please each other when they would almost never be interested in you sexually? Well, the truth is that sexual fantasy and desire knows no bounds, it has its own set of rule and operates on its own terms. There is large evidence that the things and people that some cannot get, they will desire those things and people more. Those can also be another reason why men are attracted to women, because even though they are clear about their sexual preference and will not be interested in men makes them that much more attractive for men.
Then, a few men don’t just watch two women pleasing each other and toying with their bodies, they also imagine themselves in between those bodies. The fact that they’re watching lesbian porn and not threesomes makes them imagine that they would be capable to please two women who will choose him to please them. This is another fantasy that boosts their ego and self-confidence. It makes them think that they could be attractive enough and significant enough for two lesbian women to want them.
Many of these men, enjoy watching two women just gently touch and kissing each other. They like how two lesbian partner treat their partner’s body, with care and caution, caressing and rubbing, being considerate to their needs and wants. Although most porn is made for the male gaze, the good and the hottest ones are the ones that look most genuine, where each partner is leisurely enjoying the other partner’s company. The kiss, love, touch each other’s’ bodies and indulge with each other like they have no worries in the world, forgetting everything else and their only goal and objective is utmost sexual satisfaction of their partner.
It is also possible that as it is easier for women to fake orgasms and men can almost never tell whether a women reached her high or not, lesbian porn looks more real to them than it does to women. Most women, at some point in their life are likely to be attracted to another woman and have bi0sexual thought. Comparatively, the number is smaller for men to experience the same. This might be because male bodies are not sexual enough or hot enough for other males to form fantasies around them and sexualize men in the way that men can sexualize women and women even can sexualize women- sad but it is the truth.
Many people still maintain the idea that homosexuality is wrong and taboo. Even if they are more open and liberal about it now, they’ve been brought up in a way which has left an imprint of them about it. Lesbian porn provide exposure to these men in a way that is acceptable and does not make them feel gay just for watching it.
Women, from a very young age, have been portrayed as the epitome of virtue, righteousness and innocence to men and boys. They have been led to believe and feel that men are the ones who corrupt these souls and deviate women from this path of righteousness by seducing and tempting them. Watching two women indulge in all sorts of naughty activities together, without any effect of male seduction, lifts the guilt in their hearts and minds about men being the evil ones.
Lesbian porn also provides some men with childhood fantasies of what women do in their absence closure, following the peeping-tom theory. Their life long and childhood question that what did all these ladies do at the secret girls-only sleepovers and night outs, is finally answered in the most pleasing, sexual and fulfilling way.
And some people just have their own preferences and fetishes. Human behavior is something that no one has been able to quite understand fully, we might never completely understand why men enjoy lesbian porn and we have to make out peace with it,
